When relationships end, conflicts seem to intensify! Especially when we still have outstanding accounts with that person. There is nothing more delicate and conflictive than a debt of money. Especially when the two people involved in the debt are going through a strong stage of love tension. Don’t know how to charge your partner for the money they owe you? Here we leave you several tips.
Should I claim my ex the money he owes me?
When we end a relationship, the first thing we want to do is cut off all communication and not know more about that person who made us suffer so much. But what if there is still some unfinished business between you? Specifically, some money issue that you need to solve immediately.
What is ideal? Well, probably because of the pain you may be feeling, or thanks to the resentment towards your ex you are thinking about leaving that debt as it is and saying goodbye to your money. But you must come to your senses and realize that this is not the right solution.
They were both part of a relationship, yes. They ended and are now on very bad terms, but despite all this, they are both still two rational adults who know what is right and what is not. And even if your ex-partner does not intend to pay his debt, your duty is to claim what belongs to you.
You can give yourself some time! Let a few days pass for the tide of discussion to ebb. But as soon as you see your spirits begin to recover, start planning the best way to tell your ex-boyfriend that you need to settle the outstanding account between you.
This is a lesson you must apply to everything. If your ex has several belongings of yours that you want to recover, pluck up the courage to face him once again and ask him to return everything that is yours. And in case you have any belonging to him, it is also the right time to get rid of everything.
How do I ask my ex to give me my money back?
Many people are uncomfortable having to collect a debt. Because we feel bad about it, or we don’t want to give the other person a hard time. But this time it’s about your ex, and you have to take the fastest and most effective measures to get your money.
- Do not contact him by phone: If you contact him by message or call, he probably won’t answer your call or leave you in sight. He will invent any excuse to dismiss your message and you will get nothing.
- It is best to try in person: These types of topics are best dealt with in person. This way he will have no choice but to give you the money or at least give you a good explanation about it.
- Be clear and precise: If you will go to visit him at his home, his work or the places he frequents. Don’t entertain yourself by doing anything other than what you have to do, collect your money. Don’t get carried away by misplaced comments, or sweet words that make you confused. Keep your mind on the goal, the money.
- The less time it takes the better: It’s a matter of arriving, communicating, taking your money and leaving. You have nothing else to do there. If you stay, they’ll probably end up having a stronger argument than they had before. And you’ve had enough of the dramas and conflicts.
Money conflicts with ex-boyfriends
With exes you always have conflicts! Especially when the separation has been very recent. But when it comes to money, the problems can reach a higher level.
Every time you have a money problem with an ex, you risk 50% not seeing your money anymore. Because of immaturity and resentment, he may decide not to contact you anymore and therefore you will have to resign yourself to saying goodbye to your money. While there are others who are responsible in spite of everything, and fulfill their duty. Although they are very rare cases.
