Have you had too many problems with your partner lately? Surely you are thinking a thousand and one things that may be going wrong. Maybe you’re blaming yourself, or blaming him. But in this case, it is best to assess the state of your relationship and draw conclusions from there. And we will help you.
Why does my partner get mad at me about everything? What to do?
A relationship has fights and arguments all the time. It’s a very normal thing and we all go through that. But when home becomes a battlefield daily, and it seems like you’re overwhelming your partner. It’s a clear sign that something is wrong. If your partner gets mad at you all the time, and there seems to be nothing you can’t do because chaos breaks out, it’s time for both of you to have a very serious conversation.
It is not valid to say that the culprit is you, or the culprit is him. Because to come to that conclusion, you both need to sit down and talk like adults and try to solve your problems. You can end up in three different situations:
- Realize your failures: It is very true that women tend to be irritably stubborn at times. But if your partner opens his heart to you, and shows all the failures you have had, it is your duty to listen and commit to improving. Otherwise, all the problems will continue and this time it will be your fault.
- Your partner is no longer comfortable with the relationship: At worst, the reason your partner doesn’t seem to put up with you is because they can. Many men are afraid of breakups, and therefore take an always defensive attitude that does not allow you to enter their life.
- Daily stress is being able to outdo it: When we have too much accumulated stress, anyone begins to react badly to any stimulus. It would not be uncommon for your partner to be going through something like this, and in that case, you must support him at all times and it is not recommended that you reproach him yet.
Is it normal for my partner to stop talking to me after a fight?
After a strong fight, the healthiest thing is for both to move away for a few minutes or even hours. For a tottering relationship, fighting or arguing when they still have nerves on end will only get worse. Because it is in those moments where they do not measure words, and everything that comes out of their mouths is to hurt and denigrate the other.
When your partner walks away so as not to continue with a fight, you must give him his space. As long as this kind of attitude doesn’t drag on for too long, it’s the best thing to do for both of you. Once he is calmer, you can talk to solve all his problems.
However, if your partner prefers not to solve anything and ignore you for days. It is a clear sign that he is being very immature. Not wanting to settle lawsuits only reveals a trait of his selfish and rude personality. If you are really his priority, he should want to fix everything with you as soon as possible.
Communication between couples is something that should never be missing. Especially when they are having too many problems. Since through it is how they can know each other better, they know what are the desires, insecurities and annoyances of the other and can commit to change. Otherwise, it would just be an empty relationship that will never go anywhere.
How to get better to stop arguing so much with my partner?
The more they get to know each other, the better off they will do as a couple. The fundamental pillars that should be reinforced in their relationship are: Respect, love, communication, trust and sex.
When one of them begins to fail, they all fall apart little by little. And therefore, the relationship will not be able to function. For there to be a proper balance, you both need to know how to communicate with each other and how to listen.
More important than speaking is listening. And empathize with the insecurities and discomforts of our partner to know how to react and improve. If we keep thinking about ourselves, we will not succeed in any relationship.
