Although the saying love can do everything, in most cases it is true, there is always a limit to the things we must accept or endure within a relationship. So, if you’re crazy about your guy, but he’s having a lot of attitudes that aren’t being right. It’s best to think again about whether your relationship is right or not.
How do I know if a guy is not for me?
There are many ways you can tell that the guy you like or are with isn’t the one for you. But the first thing you need to do is take off the blindfold, and start analyzing and thinking things out for yourself. Otherwise, you will only have more irrational thoughts.
- It doesn’t show interest: Never beg for love, love yourself much more than you love a man. And if your guy doesn’t seem to value, or dodges each of your attempts to be with him or take the relationship to the next step, it’s because it’s not for you.
- He is not interested in your needs: Someone who is interested in you, will take special care to meet your tastes and your needs, without waiting for you to ask for something. A guy who is not the right one for you, alone will not be careful with it but will not care at all.
- He gets upset when you tell him no: This type of attitude is the most common, and it is a warning sign that you should take into account. He should be able to respect your decisions at all times without getting upset.
- He is not a gentleman: Respect, affection and chivalry can never be lacking in a relationship. If your guy doesn’t have this kind of decorum with you, it’s because you’re in the wrong place.
- It doesn’t fit into your life: Someone who simply isn’t for you will make it clear that they don’t want or can’t be part of your family member. It is up to you to accept it and not force things too much because you will be left heartbroken.
Know if a man doesn’t care about you
Sometimes, even though we use our best charms, and are the most seductive of all, it will be impossible to get a man’s attention. For whatever reason, we are not for him. And realizing this is crucial so that we can fully protect our dignity. A man is not interested if:
- He treats you indifferently.
- Despite your attempts you can’t seem to get close to him.
- He has no interest in including you in his life.
- They only have casual encounters.
- He has declined multiple of your invitations.
- The outings are not epic.
- It does not answer messages or calls.
- He always seems to be busy.
- You see him flirting with others.
- Go out and live carefree without caring about your feelings.
Although it seems crazy, if you really want to know if you have a chance or not with your guy, it is best to ask him head-on and openly. Are you interested in having something else with me? A simple question that can save you from an uncertain future. Depending on what you answer, you can plan a course of action.
Are you really interested in me or are you just playing with me?
When we are starting a new relationship, it will always be something casual. Try not to get too involved in the first few months! And first make sure that the course of things is going naturally and without forcing anything. This kind of thing will let you know if your guy really wants something serious or not.
To know if a relationship is on track or not, you will need time. That is why it is never recommended to give everything to your partner in the first months. You don’t want to be heartbroken, and alone. Do not always rely on good deals at the beginning of relationships, because they are almost always destined to get what you want and then those deals cease to exist.
To find out if a guy is really interested in you or just playing with you, you just have to wait. Someone who only plays with you sooner or later will get tired of doing it, and will begin to move away from you.
