All couples go through difficult times. In addition, maintaining a relationship sometimes requires a lot of effort and dedication, so that it can get ahead and overcome the bad times. However, fighting for a relationship and insisting on a lost case are two very different things. Do you feel that you are already insisting too much on your partner? Here we explain what is the best thing you can do about it.
At what times is it worth fighting for love?
It is known that love can do everything! Healing broken hearts, improving self-esteem, we achieve things we thought we wouldn’t be able to do… And much more. Also, through love you can save a relationship that is about to be lost or that is already lost.
However, just as it is true that you must fight for love and to maintain a relationship, it is healthy and prudent to know at which times it is good to fight and at which it is not. For if both propose, they can revive again the flame of love.
In order for you to fight for a love, you must be 100% sure that it is real and sincere. In addition, all the efforts you are making to improve and change, must be made by your partner. Both must have the same level of commitment. Here it is not about one of the two doing all the work, while the other keeps screwing up again and again.
The best way to solve everything, and that it is worth the effort made to save a relationship and recover it, is that both are synchronized and committed. Change and improve together, promise that the two as a union will do their best to make the relationship back to the way it was before.
How much should a person be insisted to maintain love?
When we are in love we do not think clearly, so even though we have a lot of self-esteem or keep our dignity intact, sometimes we find ourselves insisting or begging for love from a person who simply no longer wants to give it to us.
It’s only natural that we all go through that at some point. It is a basic instinct of the human being to deny at all costs that the relationship is about to end and take care of a broken heart. And avoid having to go through the love mourning that can take months to leave. But still, even though it may hurt our soul, it is necessary to know when to stop insisting on a person.
Keep in mind that the moment you start insisting to a person for love, that is no longer your place! If the love between you and your partner is true, you shouldn’t be begging or begging for love at any time. Any sign of affection, gifts, beautiful words or details of love, must be spontaneous, they do not have to be demanded.
Therefore, if you have already realized that your partner does not make any effort to maintain love, and you must be insisting that he react every time, it is a clear sign that you have already been insisting a lot and it is time for you to change your place in the world. Even if you don’t accept him at the moment, he is not the right person for you.
Dignity vs love Which is more important?
When it comes to love, dignity is what is most at risk. Some people are not interested in going through hundreds of humiliations in order not to lose a person, when they do not realize that they are actually losing themselves. Who do you love more, your partner or yourself?
Think carefully about all the things you sacrifice to be with a person. Because the truth is that for you to be with someone, you should not give up who you really are. And if you’ve noticed that your personality has changed, and you feel like someone you’re not, it’s because you’re in a relationship that’s not for you. Regain your dignity and get out of there immediately!
